DIANA PALM is a spiritual healer and a world renowned expert on the afterlife with over 30 years of experience as a professional medium. She is a multi-published author who has dedicated her life to helping people heal from grief through providing proof of the afterlife.
Suicide Doesn’t End the Darkness - go to SPIRITUAL CONVERSATIONS
What many people don't realize is that when one commits suicide they move into the next realm with very weak spiritual energy and are in a type of holding pattern until they can eventually go into the light to continue their soul's evolution. They often appear to be in their death state, with emotional problems, pain, and guilt. These are weakened souls that need to be healed and released from their earthly concerns. Many people wonder why such a soul who feels that way would not just go into the light themselves. The reason is simple: following death, they have a certain amount of time that they can freely go into the light. If they choose to stay behind for any reason, the window of opportunity closes for them. They are stuck between the earthly plane and the spirit world in a sort of no-man's land.
A weakened soul has limited ability to move about the earth and visit loved ones; often they are trapped in the location of their death. They can also return to their home or other familiar place to which they feel attached. However, they cannot help their living loved ones heal from grief. In fact, having an unhealed soul of a loved one around will often prevent a family from healing their grief. This is never the intention of a weakened soul, but their energy is so low and unhealed that it impacts the living in ways that can be harmful.
Most souls in this weakened state need a living person to help them find the light. Telling one to go into the light doesn't really work, because when they chose to stay behind, they temporarily lost their connection to the light. Or it became so dim that they cannot see it and often mistake a living person's soul light for the light. This is how many people end up with ghostly attachments that can drain their energy. If you are attached to one who has entered the spiritual realm with such weak energy, the best thing you could possibly do for the ghost is to heal it and send it into the light. Once the weakened soul has entered the light, they are no longer a ghost; the healing light lifts their vibration and transforms them into the classification of a spirit.
Healed spirits can move about freely and visit all their loved ones; their vibration is higher, and their emotional wounds are healed. They will still appear to have the same personality so that you will recognize them, but they are in the light, where they need to be. Some weakened spirits will convince their living host that they don't want to go away. They may say that they are happy and want to stay with you. Of course they are content to stay; you have become their light source (or, more appropriately, their living battery). Ghosts need energy to survive on this plane, and if you have one around you or your home, they are most certainly draining your energy. If a ghost really does care for you, they will come back to visit after they are released and healed. In fact, some of my favorite visits from spirit come after I have crossed over a ghost. They often come to visit me in dreams to provide thanks. They will show me that they are reunited with loved ones and they are healed. Remember, a spirit can come and visit anyone anywhere. They are no longer trapped in one location or held hostage to an unhealed drama.
Most of us welcome any contact we get from our loved ones in spirit. But what about the invisible occupants in your home that move things, mess with your appliances, and cause your family turmoil? Are we obligated to help them? Yes, I believe we are. If a ghost has found a way into your life, there is a reason for it, Despite what the ghost may tell you, what they really need is help moving on. Here are the top ten reasons to cross over a ghost:
- Those with severely weakened souls simply cannot make the transition into the light themselves and need assistance.
- Having a weakened soul in your home can cause sickness and loss of energy.
- A weakened soul can pull you into their drama and prevent you from living your life.
- Weakened souls are doomed to experience their pain and other lower vibrational feelings until they are healed. This low energy contributes to the overall energy of our planet and affects the living.
- Weakened souls cannot move about freely to visit their loved ones; they must become healed in the light to enjoy the perks of the spirit world.
- Grieving families cannot heal as long as their loved one remains a weakened soul.
- Weakened souls are stuck in their emotional drama; until healed, it is a constant replay of tragedy.
- If a weakened soul avoided the light due to fear of punishment, the overriding feeling is still fear. The accompanying feeling may be guilt or shame. These feelings can be felt by the living and affect them adversely.
- A weakened soul may have a sense of purpose for staying behind; however, they are more effective to help once their own vibration is healed.
Healing a weakened soul and lifting the vibrations on the planet affect the living immediately. You will often notice that after the soul is healed the living feel more energetic, alive, and positive. go to SPIRITUAL CONVERSATIONS